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I approach long distance relationship questions like I’m doing emergency first aid – I need stop all of the damaging behaviors immediately and set you on the winning course immediately. In a regular relationship, you have room for error…
sure you might have some habits that push him away or turn him off, but there’s plenty of things you do when you’re together that make up for it.
If both people feel strongly about each other, the relationship won’t feel like work.
It will be effortless and talking to each other will be the highlight of both your days.
Bottom line: You need to look at your LDR as a positive test for your relationship.
If it’s meant to be, the distance will make your relationship much stronger, much deeper, and much more fulfilling.
I get messages all the time from women who are in dead-end relationships that just drag on and on because of one thing: convenient sex.
In a long distance relationship, sex is anything but convenient.
Moreover, long distance relationships take significantly more effort to maintain than a regular relationship.
It removes your enjoyment of the relationship and creates a suffocating sense of emotional starvation, where you are begging for him to prove that he cares.
In this scenario, you’re systematically poisoning your own mood and it will quickly begin poisoning your conversations, your trust in him, and your relationship as a whole.
Really, it’s an advantage: instead of a relationship dragging on and on for years (despite it lacking the “it” factor for one or both of you), it Sure, a relationship ending is sad…
I fully understand this and I have personally experienced the heartbreak of a long distance relationship ending, so please don’t mistake me for being overly positive because I don’t understand the pain and worries of a LDR.